Monday 7 October 2013

Make The Laws Of Attraction Work For You

By Eric L. Miller


Did you watch the hit movie called The Secret? If yes, then you might have heard about the best selling self-help book that was written and released later by Rhonda Byrne based on the movie of the same name. Just like film, the tenet of Rhonda's book is that the law of attraction governs the universe. It is said that this natural law works by attracting people, events, situations and experiences which matches the frequency of an individual's feelings and thoughts. With positive thinking and the principles of the laws of attraction, a person could experience life changes which can result in increased wealth, happiness and good health.
[The Laws Of Attraction]


As outlined in The Secret, the law of attraction essentially decrees that 'like attracts like'. More specifically, this means that your mindset, thoughts and feelings establish your reality and influence the events that you experience in your life. For example, someone who thinks optimistically will attract positive energy, drawing positive things into their life that is in harmony with them. On the other hand, a pessimistic thinker attracts negative things, as their negative thoughts generating bad results.

In The Secret, the law of attraction is described as a natural law that can determine the order of our personal lives and the universe through a process called like attracts like. This means that our thoughts and feelings send out corresponding frequencies to the universe and this attracts similar circumstances and events back to us. For instance, positive thoughts and feelings will attract positive circumstances and events. The law also claims that if an individual change their thoughts and feelings they could attract desirable outcomes which includes happiness, better health and more wealth. Basically, the law attraction means that thoughts are like magnets so whatever they dwell on will attract similar thoughts back into our life.

Surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you. Before the man or woman of your dreams can love you, you have to love yourself first. Take notice of how the people who unconditionally care about you make you appreciate yourself more. If it is due to their faith in your potentials, learn how to do it for yourself too. This way, you can look your best even outside your comfort zone.

The second phase of applying the law of attraction is to believe that the universe will answer your desires. The law of attraction will answer your needs, and you must truly believe this. So often that people don't have faith in getting what they want, and let the doubts or unworthiness slips in. The degree of believe has to be strong and to the extent of believing you already get what you wish to have, be the person that you wanted to be and living the life that you dream about. Believing that you have already received it and you will be rewarded. This strong believes must be able to create feeling and make you feel it. It is essential to feel exactly how you have achieved your dreams to manifest the things that you want in your life.

But, The Secret's Law of Attraction doesn't work this way. Even though you are encouraged to maintain a positive attitude, believe in your success, have confidence and so on, those positive thoughts definitely will not send out magical brainwave frequencies to change the realities of life. There is no doubt that you will have similar experiences to the millions of people who did not get the desired results from this book.You may ask yourself this question if you believe in the Law of Attraction but have not had the results you wished for. I know I have had my doubts from time to time... being able to manifest small things here and there but never achieving the level of success I had hoped for. I often wondered why could I think of a friend one minute and have her phone an hour later, but when it came to manifesting large sums of money I failed miserably. In fact, just the other day I thought "um I need to get a new headlight" and as I thought to myself "I haven't had anyone tell me it's out for a while", low and behold within a half an hour of having that thought a women yelled out her window to let me know my driver side headlight was burned out! That to me is the Law of Attraction working. Some may say... well that's just coincidence and not the Law of Attraction but I say different.

If you are familiar with the Law of Attraction then you know that this Law is in fact a scientific law stating that "LIKE" attracts "LIKE", so in other words we are like a magnet and whatever we think about in our minds we will attract to ourselves.For instance, focus on something positive and we attract positive things, focus on something negative and we attract negative things. Seems simple enough, so why do so many people struggle with this?

In 2006, with the release of the book, The Secret, I started my journey in learning about and applying the Law of Attraction. Even though it has been six years and the buzz of The Secret has died down, I study something about it everyday.As I listened to people talk about the Law of Attraction, I was soon after introduced to Dr. Thurman Fleet's Stickperson diagram. What in essence Dr. Fleet demonstrated with his Stickperson was that our thoughts, create our feelings, which causes us to act, and that is how we produced our results.The Stickperson changed my life so much I wanted to teach it. But the sources that I thought would certify me to do so wanted between $15,000 to $20,000 to do it. I decided why not go to the actual source and I contacted Dr. Fleet's Concept Therapy Institute.Dr. Fleet's course of study cost me $300 dollars per course of which there were 9 and the teacher's training course. So for a total of $3000 (over time) I was able to learn and teach the same material from the source rather than an "interpretation of the source" and at 70% less cost. I used the Law of Attraction to make this happen.

You see... we all have certain beliefs that we were taught as children. Such beliefs can leave us to stop or block the manifesting process. Bob calls these beliefs "paradigms" If we belief that forgiving someone means we are letting them get away with what they did and need to be punished then we are creating blocks that will not allow us to attract anything positive. The same is true if we belief that "money is the root of all evil" (and many of us were taught this as children) then we will never be able to manifest wealth like we want.

It was in the nineteenth century that the law of attraction had made its presence in the Western hemisphere where people had started to understand and treasure the power of maintaining a positive attitude and positive thought processes and had started applying this new found knowledge in their own lives.So it's clear that the law of attraction had been referenced and practiced long before any new age movements started to surface. Many wise men including the Monks understood that mans belief can directly impact their path of fate as well as the journey they would take in order to reach their final destination!




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